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Maybe I’ll Just Keep My Mouth Shut




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You know those awkward moments where you don’t know whether it’s better to say something or just to keep your mouth shut? Like when someone is walking around in their best suit, dragging a bit of tissue on the sole of their shoe. Or giving a presentation with a button open.

On the one hand, if you inform your hapless acquaintance, you will spare him a lot of future embarrassment — but at the cost of being the agent of humiliation. On the other hand, if you say nothing, you can pretend you haven’t noticed anything, but eventually the guy will realize what has happened, along with everyone else he has met that day since talking to you.

What do you do?

I received an email today from a business contact with whom I am barely acquainted. His automatic email signature misspelled his first, last, and company names. His first name is now that of a wild animal; his last name sounds like the evil scientist in a kids’ sci-fi flick; and his company has just changed cultural allegiances.

These are worse than ordinary typos, of course: they are embedded in the footer that goes to every email correspondent. Sigh.

Should I say anything?

2 Responses to “Maybe I’ll Just Keep My Mouth Shut”

  1. Tova Says:

    You’re funny :) I’m enjoying reading your posts (and can thank the Mishpacha for that).
    why not tell him? Just do so in a friendly/joking manner, so it’s not awkward for him.
    And don’t remind him that he’s turned into an animal name! :)

  2. Sarah Says:

    Thanks for posting, Tova! Welcome to the blog!

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